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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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Princess Diana: "There were three of us in this marriage, so it was a bit crowded."
Sep 24, 2021 10:29 am
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In Princess Diana’s case, the ‘third’ was another woman. The clinical term for ‘thirds’ is triangulation. Imagine a triangle in which... More
Sep 24, 2021 10:29 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 11,479
In Princess Diana’s case, the ‘third’ was another woman. The clinical term for ‘thirds’ is triangulation. Imagine a triangle in which... More
Couples and Premarital: Parallel Living: What to Do
Sep 17, 2021 10:30 am
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I received an email thanking me for writing Signs and Symptoms of Parallel... More
Sep 17, 2021 10:30 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 10,401
I received an email thanking me for writing Signs and Symptoms of Parallel... More
“It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship . . .
Sep 10, 2021 7:31 am
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. . . that makes unhappy marriages.”
- Friedrich Nietzsche
Despite the wonderful Beatles song, ... More
Sep 10, 2021 7:31 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 10,379
. . . that makes unhappy marriages.”
- Friedrich Nietzsche
Despite the wonderful Beatles song, ... More
“A happy marriage is . . .
Sep 3, 2021 7:42 am
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. . . a long conversation which always seems too short.”
- Andre Maurois
I love this quote for a few reasons. First, let’s look at a couple of definitions:
&ldquo... More
Sep 3, 2021 7:42 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 7,895
. . . a long conversation which always seems too short.”
- Andre Maurois
I love this quote for a few reasons. First, let’s look at a couple of definitions:
&ldquo... More
"Breaking the Silence . . . Why Openness About Your Sex Life . . .
Aug 27, 2021 7:57 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 16,330
. . . is the Best Medicine for Your Health, Relationships, and Overall Happiness"
-Moshe Kedan, MD
I’m going to share another deeply personal story... More
Aug 27, 2021 7:57 am
Comments: 2 | Views: 16,330
. . . is the Best Medicine for Your Health, Relationships, and Overall Happiness"
-Moshe Kedan, MD
I’m going to share another deeply personal story... More
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