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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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Premarital and Couples: See "Buck" for Couple's Tips
Sep 25, 2020 11:13 am
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Check out the movie Buck; it's ostensibly about Buck and horses, yet it speaks to the way people handle themselves and one another.
There's a scene in which Buck... More
Sep 25, 2020 11:13 am
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Check out the movie Buck; it's ostensibly about Buck and horses, yet it speaks to the way people handle themselves and one another.
There's a scene in which Buck... More
Stay and Play – and Work – in Carmel-by-the-Sea
May 14, 2021 7:28 am
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My husband and I, with our adored Papillon, Bixby (yes, named after Bixby Bridge), were hosted by Hofsas House in Carmel. We had an amazing getaway, especially after... More
May 14, 2021 7:28 am
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My husband and I, with our adored Papillon, Bixby (yes, named after Bixby Bridge), were hosted by Hofsas House in Carmel. We had an amazing getaway, especially after... More
Premarital and Couples: Are you Kinder to Strangers than to Your Partner?
May 29, 2020 10:26 am
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Is there a grain of truth to the statement "I am kinder to a stranger than I am to my partner/spouse?"
If so, consider these questions:
How did I... More
May 29, 2020 10:26 am
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Is there a grain of truth to the statement "I am kinder to a stranger than I am to my partner/spouse?"
If so, consider these questions:
How did I... More
Union. Unity. E Pluribus Unum (Out of Many, One)
Jun 5, 2020 10:35 am
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I’ve been trying to figure out what to write this week given what’s going on with the state of our nation, racism, and people’s treatment... More
Jun 5, 2020 10:35 am
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I’ve been trying to figure out what to write this week given what’s going on with the state of our nation, racism, and people’s treatment... More
Union. Unity. E Pluribus Unum (Out of Many, One)
Jun 5, 2020 10:36 am
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I’ve been trying to figure out what to write this week given what’s going on with the state of our nation, racism, and people’s... More
Jun 5, 2020 10:36 am
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I’ve been trying to figure out what to write this week given what’s going on with the state of our nation, racism, and people’s... More
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