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By Chandrama Anderson
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About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in ... (More)
About this blog: About this blog: I am a LMFT specializing in couples counseling and grief and have lived in Silicon Valley since 1969. I'm the president of Connect2 Marriage Counseling. I worked in high-tech at Apple, Stanford University, and in Silicon Valley for 15 years before becoming a therapist. My background in high-tech is helpful in understanding local couples' dynamics and the pressures of living here. I am a wife, mom, sister, friend, author, and lifelong advocate for causes I believe in (such as marriage equality). My parents are both deceased. My son graduated culinary school and is heading toward a degree in Sociology. I enjoy reading, hiking, water fitness, movies, 49ers and Stanford football, Giants baseball, and riding a tandem bike with my husband. I love the beach and mountains; nature is my place of restoration. In my work with couples, and in this blog, I combine knowledge from many fields to bring you my best ideas, tips, tools and skills, plus book and movie reviews, and musings to help you be your genuine self, find your own voice, and have a happy and healthy relationship. Don't be surprised to hear about brain research and business skills, self-soothing techniques from all walks of life, suggestions and experiments, and anything that lights my passion for couples. (Author and Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Calif. Lic # MFC 45204.) (Hide)
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Valentine’s Day: How to Make it Personal this Year
Feb 4, 2022 9:41 am
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Expectations surrounding Valentine’s Day can turn an opportunity to give and be given love and care (which we all need daily) into a pressure-cooker.
I... More
Feb 4, 2022 9:41 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 9,991
Expectations surrounding Valentine’s Day can turn an opportunity to give and be given love and care (which we all need daily) into a pressure-cooker.
I... More
Dear Chandrama, My wife thinks I am keeping secrets . . .
Aug 20, 2022 7:29 pm
Comments: 2 | Views: 9,295
. . . from her. I am just trying to protect her. I had a challenging upbringing; hers was protected. That innocence attracted me to her, plus she is smart and attractive... More
Aug 20, 2022 7:29 pm
Comments: 2 | Views: 9,295
. . . from her. I am just trying to protect her. I had a challenging upbringing; hers was protected. That innocence attracted me to her, plus she is smart and attractive... More
Couples New Year Resolutions (Including Sexually)
Dec 31, 2022 6:13 pm
Comments: 3 | Views: 8,941
We will:
- Prioritize our partner/relationship/marriage over everything:
• Doing so will create a secure foundation and roof over the head of your kids. You... More
Dec 31, 2022 6:13 pm
Comments: 3 | Views: 8,941
We will:
- Prioritize our partner/relationship/marriage over everything:
• Doing so will create a secure foundation and roof over the head of your kids. You... More
How Did You See Your Parents Treat One Another?
Jul 8, 2022 10:58 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 8,835
If you want to know how your partner will treat you under stress, watch how his/her parents treat each other.
So, why am I asking you this question? Because... More
Jul 8, 2022 10:58 am
Comments: 1 | Views: 8,835
If you want to know how your partner will treat you under stress, watch how his/her parents treat each other.
So, why am I asking you this question? Because... More
Are You Having Sex?
Sep 9, 2022 8:07 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 8,623
Talking with your partner about sex might lead to more sex, and better sex. What’s only in your head about your sexual intimacy? (As distinct from emotional... More
Sep 9, 2022 8:07 am
Comments: 0 | Views: 8,623
Talking with your partner about sex might lead to more sex, and better sex. What’s only in your head about your sexual intimacy? (As distinct from emotional... More
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